We heal for the children

As guardians and custodians of life, humans have a sacred role in the creation of children and the protection of their well being and innocence.

Kindness, compassion and heartfelt listening when a child is communicating is a foundational pillar for safety.

The environments they are exposed to, the music they listen to, the company you keep, the behaviours they observe and the language and values of caregivers around them shape their behaviours and coping mechanisms from the start of life.

A safe, warm home, unconditional love and healthy respect for their dignity should be a given, not a luxury.

Who we allow them to be cared for and by, their nervous systems, language, mindset and beliefs all contribute to their emergent personalities.

If they are surrounded by people who believe in tough love, speak harshly to them, are in pain, or are engaging in disrespectful conversations or behaviours, they internalise this as normal and start to project this as their reality.

So many of us have not considered the true beauty and reality of bringing life into the world and shaping it. We are unconscious in our patterns and numb ourselves to the pain of the reality and normalise this as just part of life.

Pain is a coping mechanism for imbalance and it can be healed.

When we heal and come into union with ourselves and our grace, these pains can be transmuted and a higher, easeful path is then paved.

It can take such devotion and strength to have the courage to face our pain and the issues we are perpetuating in our lives.

Not everyone can walk this way, but we can all take small steps to bring more light in our bodies, minds, relationships and homes, for the children.

Creating spaciousness and calm within ourselves helps everyone in our field around us and helps children regulate and feel more at home to become who they came here to be. And that's worth doing even just a little bit of inner work for, or changing our mindsets around what's actually required for a childs well being, not what our pain and fracture is telling us is.