Leading by example

Woman do not have to hold themselves back from inner work just because their partners are not mirroring their need for healing.

We both play different roles within the unions and our mental, emotional, spiritual and physiological needs differ.

The term complimentary opposites can help put things into perspective, with both holding the complimentary skills, functions, outlooks and strengths, that when brought together create a stronger field for relationship and union.

When the divide becomes too big, it is imperitive that the woman, the field holder, the nurturer comes back into her heart and her own feminine essence to heal, restore and rebuild.

Creating safety within our own bodies and minds first, healing the fractures and the wounds with our own mother nature begins to then anchor a more coherent containment of the relationship.

When a women is safe in her own body and experience, she becomes the safe space for her children and her partner.

She becomes empowered with her own stabilised energy and then creates more room for others to rise.

There becomes less space for the chaos and the drama to continue, and she can make more conscious decisions around the right use of her time and energy.

Its a very delicate dance when healing within partnerships, the fear of not being met and outgrowing the other, fears of abandoment, shame, blame, pain will all be triggered.

But when more light is brought into our consciousness, those around us are then free to receive more light and be themselves as well.

We can appreciate the differences and work towards resolutions with more grace and clarity once we know our own energy and mind and if someone wants to dominate and control, not be in their heart space, then more you can see the power dynamics in a different way.

There is no shame in our traumas and when we come out of centre.

Learning to love ourselves fully and kindly is a daily challenge that then becomes the sweetest gift we can flow to others.