Respecting each other
It takes only one to restore dignity.
This was communicated to me as I was walking a coastal track by an indigenous Aunty, speaking of the ways that we can hold the light for the land and the consciousness of its people.
We are so quick to forget how our resonance effects those around us, how our internal beliefs, emotions, blocks and traumas can create a ripple into our homes, families, the land and communities.
When we come to realise how important the language of our internal landscape is felt even if unseen and how it can perpetuate the pain and emotions in others, especially our loved ones we can humbly take our power back and begin to create something new.
The dignity that is restored to life when we consciously choose to heal, to create space within ourselves for less chaos and trauma cycles becomes a ripple that heals everyone around them, especially their children.
Its not easy, its really not easy to show up for ourselves when we are surrounded by those around us that are stuck and may not be able to take accountability in this life time.
That's ok, its not up to you to change them.
Your only responsibility is to make good with yourself, knowing that none of it is your fault, that self love and awareness, held in compassion is more than enough.
This is truly healing.
It is not born from malice and victimisation with boundaries.
It takes deep courage to meet the spaces within yourself and then lovingly hold your own amongst others who will not be meeting you in integrity.
Pain can be such a powerful wall that rejects peoples hearts and grace because the fear of being seen and then becoming accountable for harmful actions can be too much for a human psyche who has already endured so much.
This is why conversations must be held in grace. After integration and with the dignity of the soul in mind.
Reactive, unkind behaviour has become the norm in such an over stimulated and harsh reality.
Language instead of being kind is becoming weaponized with unhealed emotions and darker energy being the driving force, not true resolution.
When we come home to ourselves, we allow the spaciousness and peace of our own true nature to speak and respond.
This is a challenging way to live for many because it forces us to stop and really consider another human or life outside of our own first before we respond.
But eventually it becomes easier when the spaces inside with all the hurts and stories are filled with more of your own light and heart essence.